Dating and recovery
Focus on getting to know each other as people before rushing into a physically intimate relationship If you’re thinking about a relationship with someone who is in the very early stages of recovery, however, it may be best to wait until he or she is more secure in sobriety.
It takes time for the brain and body to adjust to living a sober life. Keep in mind that you can’t fix problems for your partner.
This post outlines 8 helpful tips to consider as you’re getting to know your partner.
Jumping headfirst into a new relationship is never a great idea, but it’s especially important to take it slow when you’re dating someone in recovery.
Instead of going to a club or bar, you may need to see a movie, go on a picnic, or entertain like-minded friends at home.
People in recovery all have certain sights, sounds, and situations that can trigger the urge to drink or use drugs.
For example, visiting a place that one used to go while intoxicated is a common trigger.
Talk to your partner about his or her cravings and what triggers the urge to use.
The core issues with romantic relationships in early recovery typically revolve around the distractions they create.
No matter how complicated your relationship gets, you need to make time for well-balanced meals, exercise, sleep, and stress-relieving activities. Taking care of your own needs gives you the strength to fully participate in the relationship.
While being in a relationship with someone who is in recovery can be difficult at times, it’s important to keep in mind that all relationships have their challenges.
To be a supportive partner, you need to have a solid understanding of substance abuse and recovery.
Visit sites such as Drug Abuse.gov, NCADD.org, and to learn more about the latest research into the nature of addiction.