Dating sites for very shy people
Similarly, if a girl is standing around a party and not talking to anyone, people will tend to assume she's unfriendly (unless she has a blatantly shy 'deer in the headlights' look on her face.) I think this view arises from a general belief that women are just more socially competent in general. Just that sometimes the default assumption is that women are naturally more comfortable in social situations, and so if they seem distant or untalkative it's because they're choosing to be that way.
Attractive shy women face this bias the most, since people sometimes have trouble conceiving that a physically good looking person could have any problems with their confidence.
Instead I had to rely on my observations and research on what shy women go through.
Like with men, there's variation in how shy women can be toward the opposite sex and the idea of dating.
They might give someone their number, but be too scared to answer his text when he contacts them.
Or they may really want to date someone, but wimp out and say no when they're asked out.
They may be interested in a man, but feel too chicken to strike up a conversation with him.If he talks to her she may get totally flustered and tongue-tied, or be so anxious that she ends up babbling on when it's her turn to speak.The nervousness inhibits their ability to take action in the direction they want to go."They looked at me in class for a tenth of a second today! " The points above are general shyness related obstacles that apply to both sexes in much the same way." (Cue melodramatic fantasies about getting married to them) "On Facebook they posted a You Tube video from a band I don't like. Below are the problems that shy women alone have to deal with: I put this one first to get it out of the way, since I think most people know about this concept.