Your two best friends start dating
" you might claim, as you prepare a list of romantic laments that you plan on sharing with your bestie during your daily call time.It's because you've already labeled him or her as something else.I had a big party, he texted to say he'd be late, no big deal...until his sister told me he was on a date so he probably wouldn't be there. Be honest, if you weren't back in your sleepy town, and were somewhere with more options, would this guy being with another girl really stress you so much?I called him the next day, we fought; I didn't hear from him for 3 weeks. Let me put it another way: is this really your dream guy, or the guy who you happen to be stranded on the desert island with?
While I don't regret the romantic misadventures I had before things clicked with my best friend and I, I definitely wish I could go back and tell myself that dating didn't have to be so difficult, or so heartbreaking — the key to true happiness was right in front of me the entire time.Dating your best friend may seem intimidating, but it can also be the best decision of your life.My now-husband and I both involved ourselves with many different romantic relationships before giving our friendship a shot at something else, and I feel like if I didn't consider dating my best friend, my life would be drastically different (and probably way sad)."But Karen, I'm not attracted to my best friend!(Seriously, are these two ever not yelling at each other?) They've got their own multitude of things to work out and adjust to, but you know who's taking it really hard? Schmidt is having Nick-based text-message withdrawal, Winston is channeling his anxiety into an obsession puzzles, and neither of them are thrilled that they have to be best friends now.